A very kind comment, Unclued. And, suspicious as I am of relationships where you never actually see the person, I entirely agree with you, and consider yourself, DJA and some of the other regulars as friends.
As for the forum, I'm in total agreement. When you get a puzzle such as this, and over 100 comments - that's impressive ! And it's a credit to Ash and Norah that the site has prospered, despite spam attacks, despite occasional squabbles...it's a useful site and achieves more than just "good puzzle" "look at me, I've solved it" "thank you setter"