@ Wendy: assuming it's OK to help a maiden in distress just a little ---
for 10d take the first three words of the clue literally,for the position think of a word that's more often a verb than a noun,and you have the Italian version of what you've considered again & again up till now
for 33d:for "discussion" look for a word that usually refers to a kind of musical monologue;the rest (definition) I've already posted s'thing that should be useful.
Hope no-one's upset, but I can't bear to think of you torturing y'self any longer!