Like ChrisE I am struggling with 17a and 12d to finish the grid. Following Jono's hint I thought I had 12d (although parsing not very clear) but that means 17a is a word that doesn't exist in my dictionary!!
Hi Neville
Check you have 12 right - it parses very precisely.
I wasn't impressed by 17a, but Google found it. It's American, but doesn't seem to be "children's". Perhaps there's another answer I haven't seen
Thank you all. I know now that I have 12d right but haven't yet found the mysterious childrens' game .... no doubt it will turn up if I continue to search!