Some of you may remember that a few months ago, I was looking after my friend's dog Bailey while he went into hospital. Well, he never came out and actually died after just 3 weeks! It's weird because he was supposed to check himself in on a Tuesday but he'd promised to put his sister's lottery tickets on for her, plus he wanted to make sure Bailey was settled in with me so didn't go in until Wednesday - this shows that it didn't seem like he was on deaths door!
Anyway, my point is that, even though he was raised Catholic, his sisters decided to have a "humanist celebrant" oversee the funeral - I'd never heard the term before but it was actually a good idea because he asked us all to write stories about Danny which he then put altogether into a cogent narrative that was truly about his life and friends rather than the afterlife et al.
Even the music was unique. Suspecting he might not make it he asked if I'd make sure his favourite song was played - Beasley Street by John Cooper Clarke:-)