Quixote, I was flabbergasted by your post in which you say “I'm sure there are mitigating circumstances - but it looks as though a valued member of our group has been disproportionately offended by another - may I suggest that a simple apology would restore the even tenor of our conversations”
First of all, I am not “another”, my name is Norah and I run the Forum as Admin to the best of my ability. Yes, there are extenuating circumstances, Tatters has frequently made snide remarks about my management of the Forum, at one point I was part of Les Tricoteuses.
I respect all our Forum Users and try to treat everyone fairly on the Forum, in return I think I deserve the same respect, I don’t think it’s too much to ask and I certainly don’t get that respect from Tatters. My response was not just to this particular incident but rather to a culmination of snarky posts directed at me. I will not be apologizing for my post which I felt was fully justified, though taken in isolation it could seem to be harsh. I run the Forum and that is the end of the matter.
As Admin, I turn a blind eye so can I suggest you all cease the discussion on how the Listener arrives at the Crossword Forum site, I’m not sure it’s altogether legal.
I would also add that, as Admin, I do my very best for our Forum Users and try to help everybody. My continuing efforts in trying to find a resolution to the 'Listener Saga' is testament to my dedication to the cause. As was my decision to only allow one thread per Crossword on the first page, this caused a lot of angst at first but I think our regulars soon saw the benefit of what I was trying to achieve.
So please can peace now descend on the Forum once again.