Good evening, Rusty!
I hope your son and his wife have a good time when they visit Belfast, at the weekend.
My daughter and family are going to Ireland at the beginning of October for a wedding, but that is down in Waterford, where some of my son-in-law's family live,
I have told her about The Wild, Atlantic Way..... and they hope to return another time to travel along the trail!
Now 11d: Take care of male relative as an afterthought, perhaps?
I parsed this as follows:
parenthesis = as an afterthought, perhaps (def)
parent (as a verb) - take care of
he - male
sis - relative
Is this what you thought?
The two I cannot do are ......
1d: Carry vessel upside down (3)
B??
9a: Position of diamonds in one item of clothing and another (9)
??O?T?T?P
I am completely stuck on these, if you can help me with them, please?