Hey, Rusty!
Well, I'll agree with you in principle about some people blaming the setter when they themselves cannot do a clue!
But I am not doing that?
I was simply saying that, at times, I feel I do better because I am in tune with the compiler's thoughts?
When I fail in that, though, I am not blaming him/ her for my own obtuseness!
But yes, an example of what you have said occurred last Sunday..........
I helped out with the answer to an Everyman clue only to have the 'requester' say that it was a "craptic " puzzle rather than a "cryptic " one, anyway!
I refrained from arguing, but personally I'd thought it quite a clever crossword !
Daughter just rang....BB wanted to tell me that he had watched Mo Farah win his race yesterday!
Also that the family had all been swimming this morning!
The "darkly" quotation comes from Corinthians.....
Nearly time for the Athletics!