Druh6 - I would concur with everything Simon has said - it's mainly a question of sticking with it and keeping on practicing. But do check out Fifteensquared, as you could use that to understand the clueing and parsing of the previous week's Everyman, and that will be a great help:
https://www.fifteensquared.net/
Everyman has lots of 'regular' type clues, including, but not necessarily always, a first-letter clue, one or more hidden clues (sometimes hidden in reverse) and a rhyming pair of long down-clues. Once you get familiar with these, it helps to know what to look for.
I would also suggest (if you're not already doing them) the Quiptics on a Monday. They are designed for beginners, and are a great way of boosting your confidence.