Thank you all for your supportive comments and otherwise. I'm just surprised that nobody suggested I remove the cushion from the fence on which I was sat.
I think the majority understand that I am trying to do my best to run the Forum in as friendly a manner as possible, at the same time putting up with the foibles of those who want no hints, want massive hints, want no answers, want answers - you get the drift.
I'll continue in my own sweet way to try and keep everyone happy but it 'aint easy😂.