Thanks, Norah, Bobbycollins et al...
I feel we're having a stormy few weeks on the Forum - a slight shame as it is usually an orderly, polite, helpful place!
In the recent discussion (on last week's Listener thread, I think), the post that most resonated with me was the one from Tatters. Here's part of it...
'I can't get remotely stressed about someone giving 'too much' help on a Crossword Help Forum. Some need a gentle nudge, while others need a full answer - and all shades in between...'
Another point is that 'May Contain Answers' doesn't mean - and hasn't led to - vast numbers of answers being given away on a regular basis. One recent puzzle had three answers given (all by the same person) and another had only two. And I think it was that very same week that a member said that very few, if any answers, were given.