With all due respect Caravaggio, my apology was aimed at everybody except you. You started the rudeness.
I will say i found your last post quite charming and i don't want to squabble with you. surely you must agree tho, that a post that just says,
eg.
"i thought 2d was a good clue but i didn't like 3,14,26 across"
is a bit exclusive and has less meaning than my first post on this thread?
(yes,one is a crossword,but only has any meaning if you have this particular crossword.why should this thread have its own set of rules?)
Anyway, as Crypto said - happy ever after.
btw. i think Hari-Kari is nowadays perfectly acceptable(as a spelling,not the act of..)