Well hello pete. Love you too. There is nothing in your post that comes close to a reasoned, considered contribution to the debate, so why not just leave it? One of the reasons that I am on this site quite frequently is that I am disabled, and often can't get out, so it's a nice way of interacting with other people, getting assistance when needed, and hopefully being able to give help as well.
Sometimes a thread will wander off the point, but this one has completely unravelled. What started out as an interesting discussion about a particular crossword was hijacked by one person out to prove a point. I wish now that I hadn't wasted my time responding, but hindsight is a wonderful thing.