Thanks, Quisling I had completely missed the extra G. I wonder if "gets" could be read as G (the first letter of gets). This would take both A and G out of AGGRESSIVE.
This is a bit tenuous perhaps.
You're welcome.
Re:5across, I think SPARED could mean "held back" as in being spared an ordeal, say, or perhaps being kept as a spare? This isn't totally satisfying to me but "balls" = anagram and I can't think of another anagram of "spread".