For a change, I'll attempt to be the peacemaker. Ginge, I understand what you're saying, I've detested it at times but also been guilty of doing it myself : in fact I'm coming to see that the best thing would be not to offer opinions on the puzzle at all, but to limit my contributions on the forum to answers...
...though I can't help expressing a simple riposte to the setter, "So, where do we go from here ?"
And thank you so much to DJA. For scheduling reasons I only had the opportunity to solve the puzzle this evening.