Hello, Ros!
Thank you, that was very kind of you......but yes, I had already tried that!
I had Googled " Cat friendly, self contained, self - catering holiday accommodation in Swanage" ...and got the "Homeaway" reference , plus others.
But when further researched, there is no actual mention of cats being allowed on a property....
It will say "pet -friendly", but then state however many dogs are allowed!
I am waiting on my daughter's visual report on those three properties in Swanage that sound plausible on other fronts.......and then, if deemed suitable, I shall see if I can somehow contact an owner.
I have never heard of such behaviour before from the DVLA?
My husband is older than you, and has never been referred to the GP or opticians, regarding renewing his driver's licence?
Perhaps this is a new regulation, recently come into being?
I guess it does make good sense......
Anyway, I hope you manage to sort it out satisfactorily.