....and beautifully put bobsmum.
I once came to the site for pure persiflage ....after realising one of my very best friend was not going to overcome her breast cancer. I didn't give any details, just said I had a bit of a crappy day.
A gentleman who does not not often "chat" just sent me good wishes.....it meant the world.
I did not want to discuss it, I just needed to " chat" with people who knew nothing . My friend died six months later, at home with friends and family.
I saw her every day, and this site kept me sane....Clueless, peer review etc....gave me time to " escape" and I thank you all for it.