Thank you Norah for bringing this issue to our attention.
I have been using this site now for just over a year. During this time, i have 'met' some lovely, kind and generous people (you know who you are) . I have asked for help, gave help, laughed, conversed and completed and helped compile crosswords, all of which would not have been possible without this forum.
I for one support yours and Ash's decision to allow members to 'chat' --- this is a happy forum for the most part -- and even the niggles are just part of life and are usually just a flash in the pan, tongue in the cheek thing (usually) !!!
Forums as nice as this can often be a life-line for people, who for whatever reason, cannot get out. Therefore, i would like to ask those who complain, just to take a moment to reflect, that some people may not be quite as fortunate as you, and that this forum is a very wonderful way of communicating with the outside world and provides a opportunity of 'meeting' others who enjoy crosswords and thereby enriching lives -- i hope you agree we would all be the poorer without that .
Once again thank you Norah & Ash xx