peterm et al I have just realised that I put there instead of their for 37ac which means that you are rigth about disheartened! I can only apologise grovellingy to everyone. I certainly fits the clue better. I'll get my coat!
Sallyw, I am relieved more than anything else - 'disheartened' just seemed so right! Audrey must have gone wrong somewhere too as she gave 'd-s-e-e-e-'.
Many thanks to all of you who replied, Fred, Sally, Des, etc. I have really had a good laugh. I got 18 responses. I too put 'there' instead of 'their', so dishearten is correct. I love this Crossword Help Forum!