Oddbody,
I'm sure you realise that the main underlying problem on this site is that people can morph into somebody else at will. Often they do this solely to put the boot in on somebody. Tonto is a classic example of this.
On the other hand people like Trevor74 take offence when they really have no reason to. Trevor has been here for ever so quite why Trevor74 thinks he should use the name is beyond me. The only relevance his age has is that it makes it all the more surprising how ill mannered he is.
good luck with your site.