Ok Thanks muraria- looks like I need to work on to get to the theme - it didn’t look like a real word in the grid that I had reached . I could see a word that fitted for eyeglasses if I ignored the grid that I had .
Been at this all afternoon, and one left to get, 42a, which I assume is a themester, and obviously I have 5 of the 6 letters. Is it 3 letters for kid around 3 letters for note?