Missrossers, I had to smile at “I am quite old” but I won’t accept that as being a valid excuse, if I did then I would have to kick myself off the Forum as I too am “very old”, honestly I am. I look after the Forum in my retirement for my son Ash.
Let’s start again from scratch,
1. Look at the Crossword number in your paper, say Times 1234
2. Look down the first page of the Forum to see if you can see see Times 1234
3. If you can, then open that thread and post your query there.
4. If there isn’t a Times 1234 thread, then create a new thread headed Times 1234, that’s all that’s needed in the heading.
5. Ask your question in the thread.
I hope this helps, nobody was telling you off, they were just trying to help you navigate your way around the Forum and explain how it works.
Stick with us, most people are very willing to help you. The more you join in, the easier it will become.