Dear all
Yes, in my ladies cricket team it is batsman, third man, twelfth man, night-watchman etc. I have never heard a woman use anything else. We even say, "Sorry, we are a man short today." or "We played against 10 men". It is all so natural. Occasionally a male umpire might refer to a "batswoman", but we put him right.
When women have played for "men's" teams, through ability or to make up the numbers, we are happy to be included in "fellas", "chaps" or "lads", if that is what the captain naturally uses. I do hate "guys" though, male or female.
The local teams are "ladies" in cricket and hockey, but "women" in football and rugby. Not sure why.