'Kill Bill' is correct! The Dutch city clue is based around a homophone - Enigmatist seems to use 'radio', 'broadcast' and similar to indicate homophones. Find the homophone for one of the words in the clue and you will have all but the first letter of the solution.
...and 17 d is a female name. The clue says "like us", and we're ?u?a?.
Don't be to concerned about the phrases, as you don't enter them as part of the solution - they're mainly an aid to solutions.
I seem to be finished - now find myself with the same prob as you Halloway - 1 and 14ac presumably with 20ac and 19dn should make a phrase - my other phrases are 5 of song lyrics a book and a well known philosophical statement.