Hi Simond9x, as you already have everything except the 3rd letter, it's difficult to say anything without actually giving you the answer. It's a girl's name. A lesser known version of a well-know first name and surname (singer with smash hit single from 1979, from the perspective of a dumped woman). N has escaped from the 2nd word, simple 3-letter synonym of that reversed around a 3-letter word for 'a' drink. Escapee forms 2nd letter of 4th word.