Dawn,
Like I told you after your 1st iffy posting,the "post the clue,no of letters thing" was not aimed at you specifically.
It is an effort to make the site work better both for those who want answers and those who give them. It won't stop now.
But no worries. If you have genuine questions I am sure most people will be only too pleased to help you,I know I will. Thank you for having the grace to apologise.