The name (first name, surname) goes downwards and symmetrically, as the preamble says. It appears top to bottom in two lines of non-crossing lights - it's not the answer to any of the clues.
Here's a hint for 8A:
Lad + to please, around abbrev. for date = clingy garment
Then you have to subject the answer to 4D before entering it in the grid.
Good luck!