I think it's good that the (unwritten) rules are more relaxed here than on AnswerBank. I often lurk here hoping for nudge or hint that I know I won't get over there. I like both forums. As it turned out, I couldn't get anywhere with X and Y despite the hints.
I usually go to AB to read the discussion and see if the current Listener is considered an easy one, and therefore have a chance of completing it.