Do I u'stand you correctly, Tony: the across list should end 36 38 40 41 44, and the down list 35 37 39?
And if we put a bar under 14dhow is the clue for the resulting 3-letter word numbered? Rather confusing (or am I being obtuse?)!
One way or the other thanks for the tip!
Maybe you can explain these remaining unclarities: I take it you've finished?