nonplussed, I'm not upset. I just find it amusing that people seem to think that hints are OK but answers aren't.
it's a bit like taking an exam (that is beyond your ability) and having the questions endlessly rephrased and/or made considerably easier until you do understand. you know the sort of thing....man's best friend,got four legs and goes woof, does that help. no. ok it's d?g and a famous one was called lassie. what satisfaction is there in, let's see, what is the right word here, oh I know, cheating.