Bumbler, not grumbler, welcome, I too keep a low profile 'cause they're all so witty and clever on this site and I don't like to show my intermittent memory lapses. will confide, whenever dementia sets in. My mum 94, thankfully 'passed on' now but hid it for as long as she could and then i'd find her crossword with semi gobblygook in the grid that just broke my heart.