Thank you all for your kind messages Okay I haven't hit the champers yet - wouldn't last the day !!!! Thinking about the clue - as usual can't get it - off out for a few hours so maybe a glass of wine with lunch is more acceptable. But who wants to be acceptable !!!! Thanks again I really appreciate all your birthday wishes been a hard year for me and I determined to enjoy today and for my family to have their happy mum back and this site has been very theraputic Cheers to you all x