@doug - you might not be but I am. pastille is fine as far as I know, she posted earlier on a couple of threads. Rachael, I read k's post very thoroughly, but unlike you I did grasp what he was saying, what bit didn't you get - please enlighten me.
i posted this thread because i hated the pretentious long name of the jerk, i respect pastille because she gave me advice and a phone number that helped me.
Fair enough doug, and I see where you are coming from. I don't know why people have a go at pastille, she's never nasty and always tries to help. Enjoy your night.