What a load of havers from Pastille, Terry, and God knows who else. Turn off your computers and go and find a real life insstead of these fantasies you are living out. You come across as ten year olds.
This is a crossword site. Pastille, Terry, Trevor, etc, why not go on to a social network chat site? There shall be buckets of folk like you on it. You shall enjoy! Terry, check Chambers for havers.