Hi, Jolan.
The question really is, 'Is she my cat, or am I her servant?' Not really sure what the answer is. She could give master classes in nagging. If she doesn't get immediate attention, she is not best pleased.
Maybe nagging is a bit harsh. My wife doesn't nag, but she does tend to repeat herself.
Incidentally, thanks for your guidance on the infer/imply debate. I worry for the present generation if they are not taught the basics of our language. I worry when I see or listen to some of the teachers.
Best wishes.
P.